Dildo???? HELP!?

Hello, I'm a guy, and maybe gay (idk). but i bought a dildo the other day, and used it, and found it painful, but now i really want to do it again. is the second time less painful? how should i do it? please help
Make sure to use KY. Lube the dildo as well *** you butt hole. When you start inserting the dildo in make sure you are relaxed, the best way is to is to push out like if you were going to the bathroom in order to open up. Once the tip is in the rest should be easier, it will still hurt a little bit but will feel better as you move it in and out slowly (in order to get the lubricant all over inside). Like anything else the first few times it will hurt a little, but the pain goes away as you get used to it. The trick is to go slow. Hope this helps.

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